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The Problem
As long as I can remember I go through periods – daily, weekly – where I feel horribly “ off ”. I’m bored, irritable, anxious, sad,...
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Mar 51 min read


Childhood Trauma and Remembering Who You Really Are
I was talking to someone this morning about how childhood trauma affects us in adulthood. And trauma can be a number of things, right?...
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Mar 22 min read


You are NOT your Diagnosis!
I have been preaching for years to individuals dealing with mental health issues that “ you are NOT your diagnosis !” But I heard this...
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Feb 211 min read


How to get Unstuck – FAST!
Everything I do is about helping people get unstuck. Why? Even though I have spent most of my life researching, teaching, and applying...
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Feb 193 min read


Do NOT Feel Like Sh*t if You are Single on Valentine’s Day
Many of us are going to be manipulated into feeling like sh*t because we are single this Valentine’s Day. So, I am dedicating this post...
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Feb 132 min read


Recurring Patterns
So, I was working with one of my coaching clients yesterday who was having an agonizing week filled with anxiety and deep sadness " out...
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Feb 133 min read


Don’t be a Prisoner to Life
We do NOT have to be prisoners to life. I was talking to someone yesterday who feels stuck in several ways – financially, relationship,...
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Feb 113 min read


Bleed
For the folks out there who do any kind of writing. I heard a fantastic quote today! The person said “ don’t be afraid to bleed on your...
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Feb 21 min read


Challenge Your “Story”
To get unstuck, you HAVE to challenge your “ story .” Challenge your supposed identity. All my clients have a negatively skewed sense of...
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Jan 302 min read


Being Stuck in Life and Lessons Learned from Sledding
When I was a kid, I lived in a house on a very short, dead-end street. Walking past my house, one would enter a wooded field. In the...
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Jan 163 min read


Get Out!
“ Is the system going to flatten you out and deny you your humanity, or are you going to be able to make use of the system to the...
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Jan 21 min read
Top 21 Things I Have Learned Over the Last 60 Years
Because I soon turn 60 on November 24, 2025, I’ve reflected on some of the lessons I have learned over the last 6 decades. Some are...
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Nov 1, 20242 min read
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